Forgive, be grateful & Love

I’m at this stage in life where everything that I dreamed of is for the grabs. For the grabs! That means.. it’s my decision to go for it, or not. It’s frightening because I’ve never been here before. At this point the only one who is holding me back is myself. I’m the only person who is stopping me from the person who I want to be. And it’s because of fear. How to be fearless?  

Frequency of Love
If you are on the frequencey of love*, which to me means: loving myself, loving others, forgiving, being grateful for who you are and what you have in life. I guarantee you, if you would tune in to this frequency like me, I’m confident that magical things are gonna happen to you.

I’m not saying it was easy
It was a long process of getting where I am. The process of accepting who I am, the process of loving myself, accepting where I’m from, my parents, my family, my roots. I started treating my body as a temple, making healthy decisions and try to be in balance with my emotions. Some of you have followed me for a while so you know what I did to get fitter. Then you must know I had my struggles. I’m not saying I know best and I’m doing it all right. I failed a lot of times, but that doesn’t make me a failure. I’m a winner.


Where I am now in my life I feel like I’m my best me. I’ve had this feeling before, so I suppose this can only get better. Tuning into the frequency of love is really helping me. It works like a compass that makes me go forward. Getting here comes with a lot of planning. It comes with a lot of responsibility. And it comes with decision making.

Goal mapping
When I came back from my trip I had visions and goals. I decided to write them down with the help of my business coach & friend Neel and with the help of the goal mapping plan of Brian Mayne. The goal map helps you to clarify: where do you want to be in life and why do you want to be there? Which steps do you have to take to get there and which resources do you need?

I treated my goal map as a piece of art. It’s very colorful and mysterious but the message is clear. I took a photo of it and saved it as my screensaver on my phone to unconsciously be reminded of my dreams on a daily basis. Then I put my drawing aside for a while.

In the meantime I accepted new opportunities. Not necessarily directly leading to where I want to go in my goal map but I knew it would help me grow. These are things I’ve never done before which is scary AF! But I’m doing it anyway because I trust myself and people are showing they have faith in me.

Now that I’m here and looking at the opportunities that lie ahead, I realise this is what I drew for myself. This is what I imagined me to be at for the future.


Forgive, Be grateful & Love
If you have a dream just go for it. Trust yourself, trust your skills, trust who you are. Make a plan. And just follow the plan. If you need some help with that, I might be able to help.
Forgive everything and everyone that did you wrong. Learn from what happened and accept where you are now. Put love before hate. Embrace new opportunities that come your way. Be grateful for the people who love you and show them your gratitude. I’m reminding you of this because if you’re off the frequency of love, then love is not gonna find you. Having the right mindset is gonna bring you forward.

Go for it!
It may gonna be a frightening journey. But if you have the right people next to you, who inspire you and have faith in you. If you trust yourself then go for it. Please reach out to me if you are experiencing or have experienced something similar.

I wish you all much Love ❤ Lisette

* If you want to know more about the frequency of love, here are some easy and inspiring books for you to read:

  • The Power – by Rhonda Byrne
  • Thank and Grow Rich – Pam Grout



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